Why Elliot Page Being Deadnamed and Misgendered in the 2022 Sydney Mardi Gras Matters

Tonight the 2022 Sydney Mardi Gras occurred in the Sydney Cricket Grounds, it’s new home due to Covid-19. This location and setting has been contentious within the local LGBTQI community as the new Mardi Gras comes across as corporatized, capitalist and exclusionary as you need to get a ticket to the event resulting in many missing out on being there in person.

The event was broadcast by the ABC, our national government funded network, and while I haven’t seen the whole thing due to it being as long as Zack Snyder’s Justice League, there is one piece of feedback I have noticed from the community after it’s airing tonight. A host/commentator of the event used Elliot Page’s deadname and misgendered him, something that reportedly wasn’t corrected.

On the surface this should be astonishing because Page is possibly the most high profile trans masculine person on the planet and came out a year ago. However, for my money, this is symbolic of the exact issue with the current attitude surrounding trans issues in Australia.

A little background on something I’ve been feeling this week. I’ve been seeing the rainbow flag surrounding local businesses in Sydney and plastered on social media pages of local businesses. I’ve felt cynical and upset about this, which shouldn’t make sense given that it literally represents a core part of my being. I couldn’t work out why I was upset until tonight.

Earlier today, a contingent of members of the LGBTQI community and allies to the community marched Oxford Street. The march occurred because there are still many countless, systemic issues plaguing the community, explicitly within the federal and state governments of the country who are, despite being in place for the good of the nation, creating laws specifically to hamper and lessen the ability of queer and trans people to just live their lives day to day. The Religious Discrimination Bill ( which is shelved but not gone), the Tasmanian ‘Save Women’s Sports’ bill and the Parental Right’s Bill are a few high profile bills that have been discussed in the last couple of years.

While there are many symbolic gestures being thrown around during this year’s Mardi Gras period, they ring hollow when the nation celebrating Mardi Gras genuinely doesn’t take the needs of the community seriously. There are bills and laws being discussed at the same time as Mardi Gras which are antithetical to the current celebration of queer people. No amount of sponsoring by Woolworths or American Express or rainbow washing performed by every company's social media can change that. This week the NSW government unveiled a commemorative rainbow birth certificate, which is possibly a genuine effort and some funds from the selling of this certificate will go to Twenty10. BUT in NSW you still can’t recognize your correct gender on official identifying documents unless “you have undergone a ‘sex affirmation procedure’, a procedure that costs 10’s of thousands of dollars.

So one could say that yes, passing bills which affirm the LGBTQI community may take time even if those in positions to do so started now. What doesn’t take time and what is explicitly shown by using Page’s deadname and incorrect gender is how little effort is willing to be taken to affirm or take care when interacting with or addressing people within the transgender community.

This is why I’m cynical and upset by the rainbows. Because no matter how much the city celebrates tonight, and they are, tomorrow we’re going to wake up, and something will happen. The companies will change back their social media pages back to their regular content and profile pictures. I’ll stop seeing ambiguous “why we love the queer community” advertisements from Woolworths. And transgender and queer people will continue to be misgendered, misrepresented and un-affirmed by the nation at large until legitimate change occurs.

As an aside, I don’t want to be cynical. I don’t enjoy or choose this. and I believe that if real, systemic change were to happen, my mindset on the above could legitimately change. On the non-chance any legislators are reading this and want real suggestions on how they can effectively represent and affirm the community, there were countless members of the community marching Oxford Street today that I’m sure would love to have their voices heard in a real conversation about these issues.

You Were Made For Me Review

This is a review for Jenna Guillaume’s You Were Made For Me. This is Jenna’s second novel after What I Like About Me.

You Were Made For Me follows friends Katie and Libby as they create the perfect boy, a boy that checks all the boxes on their list of what makes the perfect boy, a boy that becomes as real as you or me. This creates some interesting situations and schisms in Katie’s social life that prove for an interesting and engaging read.

I want to start by noting that Jenna tends to experiment with different ways of formatting her novels, such as the form of Journal Entries in What I Like About Me, or in a conversational way in this novel, which I think is implemented here in a way that keeps the book engaging and entertaining.

You Were Made For Me personally broke my expectations. As a big fan of the Young Adult book genre I am always looking for books that surpass expectations, that go beyond the mold. The Young Adult genre can be known for certain tropes and situations that either aren’t usually done well or are overdone. There are other books that can break new ground or ground that doesn’t get it’s fair chance in the limelight generally. I feel this book falls into the latter category.

Tackling themes that generally would get looked over or not written about as often as they should is Jenna’s strong suit. Her first novel for example follows a character journeying through body image issues, which is a great example of how Jenna doesn’t shy away from tackling the harder social issues of our time, which is so important and welcome, particularly where Young Adult literature is concerned. This is undertaken again and so expertly in this book. I will note, examples can’t be given for this without spoilers. You’ll need to read the book to know what I mean.

The plot itself was engaging. The idea of two teenage girls creating their own Hemsworth feels rather uninspired and lacking in potential. The comedy sections of Katie needing to hide Guy(which is what they name the Hemsworth clone) felt straight out of a Disney movie. I admit, 10 years ago me would have been all over that movie, and the scenes in the book itself were still fun and entertaining.

I didn’t expect a bad book, rather I expected a fun story without substance. It’s a silly premise that we’ve seen in similar ways before, it particularly makes me think of the film Big. However, Jenna manages to take the premise and use it to explore the pressures and stresses of teenage life in a fresh and nuanced way. The book excels at presenting characters in a relatable and evergreen way where it’s possible to read the book and see yourself in Katie’s shoes as she traverses her schooling and social life and the bumps that come along the way.

I highly recommend the book especially for those in the teen to young adult demographic.

Where The Crawdads Sing - Review

The following is a spoiler free review of Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens.

Synopsis:

For years, rumors of the “Marsh Girl” have haunted Barkley Cove, a quiet town on the North Carolina coast. So in late 1969, when handsome Chase Andrews is found dead, the locals immediately suspect Kya Clark, the so-called Marsh Girl. But Kya is not what they say. Sensitive and intelligent, she has survived for years alone in the marsh that she calls home, finding friends in the gulls and lessons in the sand. Then the time comes when she yearns to be touched and loved. When two young men from town become intrigued by her wild beauty, Kya opens herself to a new life–until the unthinkable happens.

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I had a pre-existing prejudice for Where the Crawdads Sing. I don’t usually lean towards historical fiction as an interest and the setting didn’t grab me after reading the blurb. There was a tinge of interest though. This book was on my local bookstore’s list basically as ‘Book of the Year’ last year. It was featured on multiple book clubs including the Reese Witherspoon book club, which does have some influence over what I read from time to time.

Jump forward a few months. We’re in quarantine, I’m in a local store and see this book essentially a third of the price. I decided to see what the fuss was about and was somewhat pleasantly surprised.

The book has more heart and more humanity within the unexpectedly deep character study presented as the main plot. The story, for the most part, follows the life of Kya as we follow her from the age of six up to late adulthood. The other parts of the book, less focused on until the end, follows a murder mystery within the town Kya lives in.

The book has the earned advantage of what I want to say is one of the best first chapters I have ever read. Generally, the start and end of a book is hard to get right. Either component can add or subtract from a reading experience. The major skill of writer Delia Owens is her talented use of descriptive language which is able to draw you in to how characters feel on a deeply human level, and also paint vivid pictures of the setting and immerse you in to the story. This descriptive nature makes the start of the book emotional and engaging in a way that I don’t usually feel in some books until around the 50-100 page mark, where this book was able to accomplish from the start.

This descriptive nature of Owens’ writing does prove to be a pitfall towards the end. Within the last 50 pages you are aching for the climax to come about, the crux of the book to be shown, and yet the story deviates and dives into what I would say is unrelated and unhelpful character memories which I would say is intended to show you more of who Kya is and why she feels the way she feels. These deviations make the latter part of the book drag slightly in a way that doesn’t benefit the book.

That said, given that in a 384 page book, I was engaged to the point of not wanting to stop reading for about 330 pages, the complaint about the latter part is very small compared to the joy and moving narrative I was given.

Overall, I want to recommend this book for anyone who wants a deeply visceral read, striking at the heart and engaging that which makes us human - the need for a sense of belonging and acceptance.

I don’t want to do star review on the blog - I like the idea of giving personally formed thoughts and letting them speak for themselves, however if you want to see a star review, you can find it here.